DhammaPada verses 209–220 explore the danger of attachment to what is pleasing, how sorrow and fear arises from the beloved, fondness, delight, sensual pleasures, and craving, who is dear to the people, who flows upstream, and on the importance of merit.

Piya vagga - Chapter 16 - Beloved

209

One who engages in what is not suitable, and neglects what is suitable; Clinging to what is pleasing, having given up their true welfare, envies those devoted to diligent effort.

210

Do not associate with what is pleasing, nor with what is displeasing; For separation from the beloved is suffering, and so too is the sight of the unloved.

211

Therefore, do not hold anything as beloved, for separation from the beloved is painful; There are no bonds for those, for whom there is neither the beloved nor the unloved.

212

From beloved arises sorrow, from beloved arises fear; For one who is freed from the beloved, there is no sorrow—whence fear?

213

From fondness arises sorrow, from fondness arises fear; For one who is freed from fondness, there is no sorrow—whence fear?

214

From delight arises sorrow, from delight arises fear; For one who is freed from delight, there is no sorrow—whence fear?

215

From sensual pleasures arises sorrow, from sensual pleasures arises fear; For one who is free from sensual pleasures, there is no sorrow—whence fear?

216

From craving arises sorrow, from craving arises fear; For one who is free from craving, there is no sorrow—whence fear?

217

Endowed with virtue and vision, firmly established in the Dhamma, who knows the truth; Who does what ought to be done, such a person is dear to the people.

218

One who aspires for the ineffable, and is suffused by it in their mind; whose mind is unattached to sensual pleasures— such a one is said to "flow upstream".

219

When one who has been away for a long time, returns safely from afar; Their relatives, friends, and well-wishers, welcome them back with delight.

220

In the same way, when one who has made merit, passes on from this world to the next; Their merits welcome them, like relatives welcoming a dear one home.