A deity asks the Buddha what is a friend to one who is traveling, within the home, in times of need, and in the next world.

SN 1.53  Mitta sutta - Friend

“Kiṁsu pavasato mittaṁ,
kiṁsu mittaṁ sake ghare;
Kiṁ mittaṁ atthajātassa,
kiṁ mittaṁ samparāyikan”ti.

[A deity asked]: “What is a friend to one who is traveling?
What is a friend within the home?
What is a friend in times of need?
What is a friend in the next world?

“Sattho pavasato mittaṁ,
mātā mittaṁ sake ghare;
Sahāyo atthajātassa,
hoti mittaṁ punappunaṁ;
Sayaṅkatāni puññāni,
taṁ mittaṁ samparāyikan”ti.

[The Blessed One]: “A |travel group::caravan, convoy, lit. with purpose [sattha]| is a friend to one who is traveling,
A mother is a friend within the home;
An ally in times of need,
is a friend again and again;
The |merits::good deeds [puññā]| one has made by oneself—
they are the friend in the next world.”

Qualities:

Good friendship

Good friendship

Association with those who are virtuous and wise, who encourage faith, ethical conduct, and discernment. Good friendship is the chief support for progress on the path, guiding one toward right view and wholesome living.

Also known as: friendship with wholesome persons
Pāli: kalyāṇamittatā
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Merit

Merit

Wholesome result of good conduct, generosity, and right intention. Merit brightens the mind and supports happiness and favorable conditions for practice.

Also known as: good deeds, spiritual wealth
Pāli: puñña, kalyāṇa
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Last updated on December 13, 2025