Verses describing the characteristics of a false friend—one who disregards conscience and speaks without sincerity—contrasted with a true friend whose loyalty is unbreakable and whose actions reflect inner integrity. It further speaks to the joy and peace found in virtuous conduct, seclusion, and the realization of the Dhamma.

SNP 2.3  Hiri sutta - Conscience

Hiriṁ tarantaṁ vijigucchamānaṁ,
Tavāhamasmi iti bhāsamānaṁ;
Sayhāni kammāni anādiyantaṁ,
Neso mamanti iti naṁ vijaññā.

One disregarding |conscience::internal sense of right and wrong used for guiding one’s behavior, moral shame, scruple [hirī]|, detesting it,
who says, “I am your friend";
But does not do what can be done,
one should know of him: “he is not my friend.”

Ananvayaṁ piyaṁ vācaṁ,
yo mittesu pakubbati;
Akarontaṁ bhāsamānaṁ,
parijānanti paṇḍitā.

He who speaks sweet words among friends,
with no follow-through in action;
Talking but not doing,
the wise know him well.

Na so mitto yo sadā appamatto,
Bhedāsaṅkī randhamevānupassī;
Yasmiñca seti urasīva putto,
Sa ve mitto yo parehi abhejjo.

He is not a friend who is always suspicious,
fearing a rift, ever watching for |faults::(to be used in an argument) weak-spots, openings [randha]|;
But in whom one rests, like a child on mother’s breast,
that one, unbreakable by others, is truly a friend.

Pāmujjakaraṇaṁ ṭhānaṁ,
pasaṁsāvahanaṁ sukhaṁ;
Phalānisaṁso bhāveti,
vahanto porisaṁ dhuraṁ.

A state that gives rise to joy,
pleasing, and praised by the wise;
He cultivates it, anticipating its fruit,
bearing the burden of human duty.

Pavivekarasaṁ pitvā,
Rasaṁ upasamassa ca;
Niddaro hoti nippāpo,
Dhammapītirasaṁ pivanti.

Having tasted the flavor of |seclusion::solitude [paviveka]|,
and the nectar of inner |tranquility::calmness, serenity, stillness, peace [upasama]|;
One is freed from fear, and without stain,
sipping in the flavor of delight in the |Dhamma::teachings of the Buddha that point to the nature of reality, the ultimate truth [dhamma]|.

Topics & Qualities:

Diligence

Diligence

The protective quality of guarding the mind amidst sensory experience. By restraining the faculties, the mind remains unsoiled by attraction.

Also known as: alertness, carefulness, heedfulness, conscientiousness, vigilance
Pāli: appamāda, uṭṭhāna
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Good friendship

Good friendship

Association with those who are virtuous and wise, who encourage faith, ethical conduct, and discernment. Good friendship is the chief support for progress on the path, guiding one toward right view and wholesome living.

Also known as: friendship with wholesome persons
Pāli: kalyāṇamittatā
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Solitude

Solitude

Physical seclusion from crowds and mental seclusion from unwholesome states. It provides the quietude necessary for the mind to settle, detach from worldly entanglements, and develop deep collectedness.

Also known as: seclusion, privacy, aloofness, non-association
Pāli: viveka, asaṃsaṭṭha
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Tranquility

Tranquility

A mental quality of calm and stillness that arises when the body and mind are unburdened by agitation.

Also known as: calmness, peacefulness, serenity
Pāli: passaddhi, santi, upasama, upasanta
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Without fear

Without fear

A quality of complete security and freedom from distress that arises when one has abandoned all grounds for fear.

Also known as: fearlessness, free of distress
Pāli: niddara
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Bad friendship

Bad friendship

Association with those who are unprincipled, faithless, or unwise. Such companionship leads one away from the Dhamma, fostering negligence and wrong view.

Also known as: friendship with unwholesome persons
Pāli: pāpamittatā
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Shamelessness

Shamelessness

A lack of inner concern or self-respect that allows a person to do what they understand as wrong without discomfort or restraint.

Also known as: act without thinking about what is right, fair, or appropriate, disregarding one's moral sense of right and wrong, unconscientiousness
Pāli: ahirika
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Last updated on December 13, 2025